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  1. Dear Reader…………

    I Received an email today from one of my male readers. Big Up all the men who read my columns, this is the email…….

    Hello, i know you dont have a ph’d in psychology but your a woman and that’s enough.
    I have been going out with my girlfriend for over 4 1/2 years now, this april 16 will be 5 years.
    Since  in first couple of years sex was great but then its like the tap turned off. Whats even worse
    she is very unaffectionate now. But always wants to come over. I feel like she is my sister now.

    As a male this is VERY VERY frustrating. I havent cheated on her but i am a male, we CANNOT live without sex, and no masturbation isnt the same, not even close.
    How can women expect to have a relationship with a man and then trap them by turning it into a sibling affair with no intimacy and no sex. And im not talking about
    demanding it 3 times a day, im talking about maybe 2 to 3 times a week or even once a week. I havent had sex with my girlfriend in 8 months and she doesnt even want me to touch her in any suggestive manner it seems.*sigh*

    My other male friends complain about this as well. They say they might as well call their girlfriends/wives their sister, cuz really what would be the difference???

    I know this isnt one of those Dear Doc articles in the gleaner, but im asking you as a woman, why do women do this.
    Because of this, im afraid or certain im never getting married, because it would feel like too much of a trap. im sorry i just love sex too much,
    but i want to it be with my woman, im not into cheating around.

    BTW my sister,oops i mean my girlfriend just turned 25.

    Dear young man,

    I’m going to give you my opinion as a woman, I also asked 3 other of my female friends also because I don’t want to be biased. So we all agreed except one, you know what allow me to start from the top.

    Maybe she lost a baby for you, and her appetite for sex has died, maybe you had a fling a couple years back, or recently and it has made her unable to have that sexual emotion for you.

    OR……. it could be this, she’s been with you for sooo long she’s reached her peek 25, and she probably out grew you, you aren’t what she wants anymore. She still hangs out with you so maybe she hasn’t found somebody that she wants to stay with just yet, but she definitely doesn’t want a relationship with you. She probably looks at you and wonders why she was with you to begin with, do you financially support her maybe that’s whats keeping her at your house.

    My advise move on to a next girl someone who can give you what you want sitting down with someone who makes you unhappy isn’t helping any of you, you’d probably  be doing her a favor, she clearly wants out, but whatever you’re giving her (which clearly isn’t  sex) she wants to hang on to it.

    I’m trying to think of something else that could cause this but nah, that’s it she goodly find a next man, i’m wondering how old you are, if you’re way older than her for sure she wants a young penis.

    xoxoxoxox Lauren Alexander, Find happiness sweetheart, its out there.

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